Love needs to be reciprocal, as any relationship is a two-way street. Significantly, it’s an alarming situation when you are dedicated as always, but your partner seems to have eyes focused elsewhere. Here are 10 signs to identify your partner’s commitment to your relationship.
1. TOO BUSY
When your partner doesn’t have time even to text you and exchange some loving notes, there is something really fishy somewhere. In today’s time, when so many gadgets of communication available, it’s impossible not to stay connected. Texting hardly takes any time, probably less than viewing a WhatsApp message.
2. MISSING SUPPORT
Support between love birds arise from deep love and mutual trust. Support means moral support not some kind of dependency for materialistic needs. However, when you find your partner not supporting or agreeing with any of your decisions or stand by you when you need the support most, it may be the exit sign.
3. MEETING FAMILY
Having enough time spent together as a couple, expecting to meet mate’s family is a natural elevating process in a relationship. However, the writing could be seen on the wall, when your mate shirks away from taking you to meet family. It clearly indicates insincerity in relationship.
4. AGREE TO DISAGREE
When contrary to earlier pattern, your partner agrees to disagree on anything you say or plan; there could be something wrong in your relationship. Moreover, when you begin to realize that you are having more fights without any substantial reasons, then probably your love story may be heading towards a dead end.
You can get clear signs when your partner stays noncommittal about the future plans together with you. This continues despite substantial time spent together. Probably, it’s the sign that your partner is not sure enough to spend life with you.
6. LESS CARING
Is your partner not as caring as before? This could be because of issues related to career. However, you still need to check whether your partner’s possessive nature is still there or subsided? If your partner does not care and react as before when someone approaches you in a public place, then beware as the signs are there to see.
7. DISAPPEARANCE FOR LONGER HOURS
There would be some kind of alarm buzzing, if you feel your partner’s disappearance for a longer time is becoming a habit. Also notice, whether you get calls from your partner or you need to do it. Also, observe your partner’s response time on returning your call, if it’s more than before, you have a possible sign there!
8. COOL DEMEANOR
This is also an interesting observation to look for some signs. Your partner’s earlier reactions, retorts, and annoying behavior suddenly turn cool. You may observe it’s no more annoying now, as anger and possessive behavior is gone. Surely, you normally don’t look for a partner who constantly annoys and fights with you. However, the changing nonchalant behavior of your partner is surely disturbing.
9. SUDDEN ALERTNESS
There were times when you stayed at your partner’s place and you used to forget any of your belongings. However, for that neither you nor your partner used to be much worried. Lately, you notice your partner safeguarding that and being careful that you don’t leave anything there. It may be a considerate gesture, but not when it was never in practice before. Maybe, your partner has some other ideas without you.
10. LESS INTIMATE SESSIONS
If you notice your intimate love life is losing its lustrous charm and one of you is not as responsive as before now. There certainly is some red flag waving to stop your relationship. When you start discussing on this, you will notice your partner’s reluctance in pursuing this subject.